Dating a transgender is just different from normal dating. Because it takes much more courage to accept a trans dating partner than to a casual dating partner. People judge so easily these days.
But being in a trans relationship needs much more commitment from both of you as well. There should be mutual understanding and acceptance for things. Sometimes you need to co-operate on his thoughts and sometimes he will have to do that. This is the key for everything.
Always remember making a relationship success is not a one day game. It is always your efforts in the long run.
Love them care for them treat them as you want yourself to get treated. Respect them with all your heart. Always remember they are more than your date. Do your best to see them as what they are: human beings, with their own wants, needs and fantasies.
Most trans people aren’t really in the mood to educate people when they’re out on a date. So stop being a jerk on the trans date. Stop asking stupid questions and making your trans date embarrassed. They are not there with you to teach you lessons on being trans and explore their sexuality. If you really wanna know anything just google it . And search it yourself and also don’t assume you know everything because all your knowledge came from some popular media lage that’s not fully reliable.
Ask About What Your Date is Comfortable With and Respect That
Only your trans partner knows his/her body and only they can tell you what they are going through and what kind ofva feeling they have.You should be paying attention to their comforts with you. Only then you can think of moving forward with them. It is about doing the things for each other not just for your selfish reasons.
Trans people can be discomfortable with their own body sometimes.So they need extra care being with someone else. They may not feel as comfortable with you so easily as they do with their own self. So you need to take care of them with extra efforts.
And this goes with everyone. Whether you are comfortable or not you are going to decide it and for the other person it’s your duty to make them feel good with you.
Respect Their Decisions:
You must learn that they also have the right to make their individual decisions. You cannot take anyone for granted. Do not assume things on your own. It’s a date. Okay, but it doesn’t promises you any kind of commitment. So do not rush yourself to the conclusions so quickly. Stay patient and things will happen at the right time for you.
They might say yes to your proposal and it might be a no and same thing goes with you also. So just keep this in mind.
Just keep these points on your list while you are dating a trans person. Thank-you and good luck.